The Drama Triangle – Season 2 Episode 4

Episode 4: The Drama Triangle

In this episode, we dive into two powerful models that help us understand how we show up in conversations and conflicts. We explore the Drama Triangle, a really useful framework for recognising the roles we slip into when tension rises and the Communication Pie, which breaks down what truly carries weight in how we communicate.

Spoiler: it’s not the words! Most of what we “hear” comes from body language and tone. So if someone’s words sound fine but something feels off, you’re probably picking up on the real message beneath the surface.

This episode has some great visual prompts so do watch if you can.

This season of The Capa Podcast is funded by East Sussex County Council, allowing us to make these resources freely available to families. You can both listen and watch these episodes.

Do check out all our episodes in the season, each week we will continue to share strategies, stories and reflections to help families face the challenges of CAPA with greater confidence and hope.

Safety Planning and Calling the Police – Season 2 Episode 2

Safety Planning and Calling the Police – Season 2 Episode 2

For many parents and carers, moments of crisis can feel frightening and overwhelming. In this episode, our Senior Practitioner Matt, together with a guest expert, explains clear and practical strategies to help you prepare for difficult situations. We talk about how to plan ahead for safety, how to de-escalate when possible, and how to make informed decisions about safety planning and calling the police.

Three Faces and Dysregulation  – Season 2 Episode 1

Three Faces and Dysregulation – Season 2 Episode 1

The opening episode, “Three Faces and Dysregulation”, explores how children and young people may express distress through three different “faces”. These can include aggression, withdrawal, or other difficult behaviours that put pressure on family relationships. By recognising these patterns as signs of dysregulation rather than deliberate defiance, parents and carers can begin to respond in ways that bring connection instead of conflict.