We recently hosted a free networking event (online, so people could join regardless of location!) for professionals who work with families who are/may experience CAPA. The event has now taken place, but we’re sharing a recording for anyone who couldn’t join us, which you can watch below. Our guest speaker for this event was Al Coates MBE.
This #CapaCommunityConnections was hosted by our senior practitioner, Matt. The session looked at CAPA through the lens of adoption, fostering and kinship carers. Al spoke about his journey into working in this field, beginning with his experience of adopting his children and being confronted with the realisation his parenting approaches that worked with his other children, suddenly didn’t work with his 3 year old. He wasn’t coping. What do you do then? This led him to giving up work and finally training as a social worker.
Al spoke about definitions and how parents and professionals may define the behaviour, looking at some thoughts on root causes of this behaviour both through lived experience and biological reasons, the specific situations that arise in adoptive, foster or kinship carer families.
Al shares his personal, lived experience as well as professional experience with warmth and honesty.
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As an adoptive mum supporting her son through some challenging times, Sarah Fisher learnt about non–violent resistance (NVR) and adapted it to develop a more holistic approach – Connective Parenting NVR. She now shares the approach with families from across the UK and beyond and also trains other professionals working with families in this approach.
Sarah joined us for our latest #CapaCommunityConnections event to share information about NVR and answer questions. We had a great turnout for this online event, but for those who missed it we recorded it so that everyone can benefit from Sarah’s advice and knowledge in this area.
Letting your child know that you are thinking of them, and that they’re welcome to join you for an activity, a film, a walk – anything, but importantly with no pressure to say yes. Find out how to approach this method to start making changes with your relationship with your child.
In this episode, we explore The Parent Child Game. This is a powerful strategy you can use to strengthening the bond between parent and child. By allowing children to lead meaningful interactions, this exercise encourages trust, improves communication, and helps reduce challenging behaviours at home.